Sunday, August 30, 2015

Just Keep Reading

Married men are required to say that they are the luckiest guy on the planet. It's either that or sleeping in the dog house, yet the reality is that as I look around and see the women that some men have married... well lets just say that I much rather sleep in a dog house during a blizzard than to spend 5 minutes looking at that thing they call their face... Just kidding. Or am I? Perhaps this paragraph has an interesting twist. A few years ago I attended a men seminar on how to become a better husband. The meeting went a bit longer than expected and once it was over, my friend called his wife and she let him have it over the phone. He was 30 minutes late and all he could reply was, "I attended these meetings to be a better husband to you." Yet somehow she kept going on and on. So according to him, she makes him the luckiest guy on earth and that's great because... keep telling yourself that buddy.

Personally, I am happy that I'm not required to say that I am the luckiest guy on the planet because Traci chose me. She does want me to be honest and since I'm being honest. I often feel that I don't fully deserve to be with someone like her. I mean, how many good looking women out there know the difference between a 350 engine and a 340 engine? Or how many women would be excited to drive a 34 Chevy for their 34th birthday? Last year my in laws bought me a fishing rod and Traci's remark was, "That's cool, but I want to go fishing with you too." Seriously? I don't even take fishing seriously. You know how many guys would die to have their spouse say anything positive about fishing? Look, I'm not going to start listing how amazing Traci is, instead I'm going to be honest. Traci makes me the luckiest guy on the earth.



Traci Bday from josh galan on Vimeo.

Pretty Good Memories

It seems that life just gets busier the older you get. Also having a kid is a constant reminder of how fast life flies by. I literally look the same as I did two years ago but Ben is a completely different kid from just two years of difference. He's grown tall, has great vocabulary, he's agile and quick, yet he was barely able to talk or walk just a year ago. It's rather astonishing if you ask me how fast kids advance in their early years.

Our original plan was to celebrate Ben's birthday at Glacier National Park but since that didn't work out, it was decided to have a small birthday party at my mom's house. We enjoyed haystacks, watermelon and a cake that Traci made herself. Once again we had water balloons to help the guest cool down yet things escalated quickly as everyone took the opportunity to finish any unsettle differences. Ben simply enjoyed seeing the balloons pop on the ground but later became frightened when he witness the frenzy of water balloons flying through the air, along with all the screaming and laughing. Once we ran out of liquid ammunition, Ben opened his gifts and was quite literally overwhelmed at all the neat stuff he got such as a bubble lawnmower, hot wheels, clothes, a xylophone and even a T-Ball set. Definitely enough items to keep his imagination busy for a while.

It's a hard card to play as a parent when you don't want your kids to be spoiled yet you don't want them to miss out. I personally seem to toss any argument in my mind when I see fun toys for Ben. So after a small conversation with Traci, it was decided to invest on a John Deere pedal tractor for his Birthday. He was very excited to ride in the tractor although two months later he still can't reach the pedals. We still have to push him when he rides it and steer for him since he doesn't fully understand the concept of the steering wheel. It makes for good memories though... pretty good memories.